You're pretty much 100% right, True.
No possible way he owns it like this if he's first. Because his was a charge you could fight easier. And more because he and his agents/advisers could look at the track record of who's told the truth and who hasn't. Do that for only a few minutes and you can see who's had the easier time of it. So if he can handle this right, he can overcome it just like Kobe Bryant overcame Colorado.
But here's the reality on Bonds. He's been treated the way he did not only because he's been proven guilty, but for one simple reason. He's an *sshole.
Baseball, more than any sport, for a long, long time, is pretty much run by its writers. Because nobody else is with these teams every day. And the grip is looser now because of ESPN, but for a long, long time the only access that you and I had to these teams was through their writers. And the fact is, Bonds is a complete d*ck to the media and to many of his teammates.
If they loved this guy he'd have gotten such kinder treatment.
And you don't even have to take my word for it. Look at the Hall of Fame, why did it take Jim Rice forever to get into the Hall? He was a prick to the press during his playing days. He tried to correct it some once his career was done, but it still took him forever for them to get over that.
Is it right, no. But it's reality. Same with what Bonds did. Is it right, no. But it's the way it is.